Schools, Isolation, Detention and Child Abuse by Emily

What is happening in our schools? I have been speaking and helping some girls recently as an online counsellor . One, a UK teenager, who ‘hates school’! Always getting into trouble and spending her days, when she is in school, in ‘isolation’/detention. At home her mum’s boyfriend was in charge! Getting drunk, smashing up the house, beating and… Continue reading Schools, Isolation, Detention and Child Abuse by Emily

Guilt and the Master/Servant Relationship by Emily

  Time and time again, when I am counselling women or girls who have been in abusive/controlling relationships, guilt is a common theme. They have been controlled (Master) into taking the blame and have been punished (Servant) accordingly! Even long after leaving those relationships, they still see themselves as being responsible for causing ‘his’ anger! You know if… Continue reading Guilt and the Master/Servant Relationship by Emily